tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778623786456216039.post4705338585363499754..comments2023-08-16T11:54:55.727-04:00Comments on Two's Company. Three's a Family.: Widening the circle, a bit.Christinahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/03357280337675044927noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778623786456216039.post-21386059161789802142011-03-12T11:44:04.241-05:002011-03-12T11:44:04.241-05:00I'm with you on this one. Just like pregnancie...I'm with you on this one. Just like pregnancies are all different, so are m/c's. In my opinion, I'm still not pregnant, so I can't compare myself to those who have had one, and are now pregnant. <br /><br />What I usually find is that the first few weeks of pregnancy announcements or births are always hard, but it seems to settle eventually. I hope this happens for you, although I know it's hard when it happens within the family and it's almost impossible to seperate yourself from it...A m a n d ahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15522409790762503985noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778623786456216039.post-53053971015969282042011-03-10T21:02:29.717-05:002011-03-10T21:02:29.717-05:00I have a coworker who just returned from maternity...I have a coworker who just returned from maternity leave this week. She sits right by me now. Thankfully, through most of her pregnancy, we sat on different floors. I haven't asked her anything about her baby yet. I'm hoping to avoid that. <br /><br />Thanks for the vitamin advice. I'm going to have to look for those. As for luteal phase, do you mind me asking how long yours was before being diagnosed? I feel like mine is on the short end, but my RE doesn't seem that concerned yet.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02556722325372102710noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778623786456216039.post-35385203523761002722011-03-10T16:27:00.252-05:002011-03-10T16:27:00.252-05:00Funnily enough I think it does get easier. A frie...Funnily enough I think it does get easier. A friend of mine who started trying in 2005 a year before me (and now is finally pregnant with her first) was one of the first people I told about what we were going to. She told me the first year is the worse. I think that is because in the first year, you still have hope. After that the downs aren't quite as low, cause you don't have the highs.<br /><br />hmmm that was a bit depressing.<br /><br />But it does get easier.Lizhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07336643483655255680noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2778623786456216039.post-38354933763374586692011-03-10T15:36:10.905-05:002011-03-10T15:36:10.905-05:00I totally understand you. I have a friend who had...I totally understand you. I have a friend who had a miscarriage last summer, shortly after mine. And she kept trying to relate to me. I tried, but it kept going through my mind that hers was different - she lost her baby after one month of trying! I lost mine after over a year of trying, plus a few IUI's! It's not a Pain Olympics, I keep having to tell myself. This isn't a competition for whose life sucks the most. It all sucks. Sending you a hug, my dear.Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524692943966582775noreply@blogger.com